Sadly, this is the response that so many of us have heard when we finally got the courage to talk about BDSM or kinky desires.


Maybe social stigma or the cultural or religious shame you grew up with is so strong that it stops you before you even think of asking for what you need.


Either way:


The TRUTH is: As long as you play within the boundaries of what is Safe, Sane and Consensual, you can do whatever you want.

You Are Allowed To Be Yourself.

Yes! You are allowed to want what you want. And as exciting and erotic as it can be, knowing how to get started in the wild and wonderful world of Kink and BDSM can be daunting. It can be scary to think about being rejected or meeting the wrong people.  I have walked this path and I will be your guide.

The Kink Unbound Program is an 8 week, highly personalized program that is designed to be part coaching and part BDSM skills training. We will address what is holding you back from having what you want, learn new skills that intrigue you and if you feel like you are submissive or Dominant or both, you get to practice with me! 

The program is designed so that you get what you need to play safe, know what you enjoy and know what to do with your current  partner, new play partners or at play parties. 

You will feel confident and excited to be your true Kinky Self.

A Few Of The Many Benefits of
Embracing Your Amazing
Kinky Self

Erotic Self-Discovery

You get to learn what REALLY turns you on and experience greater heights of pleasure and satisfaction.

Personal Empowerment

It takes courage to explore your sexuality! By being courageous in sexual exploration, you can become more confident and self assured in other areas of life as well.

Connection & Intimacy

Embracing your true desires gives you deeper connection and intimacy with YOURSELF! With that foundation, you can have more meaningful connection and intimacy with others.


"I feel such a sense of peace and safety with Coach Julia. I never knew I could be so open with someone. I have learned that my desires are completely ok and I can safely be in a sub relationship with a Dominant. I didn't know what I didn't know until I met Julia! She has helped me tremendously."
Charleston, S.C.


A Personalized Plan Made Just For YOU

You get a program designed just for you to learn the skills,  practice being a submissive, Dominant or both and gain freedom in knowing that your desires are completely normal.

Meet Anywhere Over Zoom

Ease and convenience in meeting where ever you are.

Eight Coaching Sessions With Me

Private one hour sessions every week or every other week

Practice Being In The submissive or Dominant Role Or Both

Learn the essentials of play and how to vet partners so that you find the right people to play with. 

Text and Email Access Between Calls

Even good changes can bring challenges. You will be supported every step of the way. 

Skills and Safety Training

Feeling confident in your skills and knowing how to stay safe leads to more satisfying and hot play

Guidance On Gear and Clothing

You will know what to buy and how to use it! We will even arrange for me to shop with you.

Freedom and Fulfillment

Self-acceptance, connection, clarity, sense of adventure and so much more comes when you make peace with your desires! 

How To Get Started:

Step 1: Book Your Free Discovery Call

We'll meet over Zoom for 30-45 minutes. You can ask or tell me anything and know if the Kink Unbound Program is right for you!

Step 2: I Design A Plan Just For You

I will create a coaching plan to address where you feel blocked or stuck AND include the specific skills you want to explore.

Step 3: Start Feeling Relieved and Excited

Knowing you are well are your way to having the erotic connection and sex life you have longed for will bring you relief and excitement.

You Don't Have To Suffer In Silence Any Longer.

Reaching out and seeking support can be the hardest part. You’ve already done that because you’re here! Now you know exactly how to start and what’s possible for you. 

You don’t have to do it alone. You can start to free yourself today!


Sharing Your Secret Desires!

By following the tips in this guide, you will be one step closer to having the hot passion and connection you long for.