I got started for one important reason:
To help people like you who feel like I did, alone, hopeless, afraid to ask for help and pretending everything is fine. It took me way too long to get the answers I needed and I don’t want that for you.
There are well-intentioned but very misguided therapists and programs out there for people who struggle around sex and love. I tried almost everything. Everywhere I looked, I just got more shame. Pathology is everywhere when it comes to sex. I believe it’s the guilt and shame that are the REAL problems not sexuality.
I finally found a sex positive coach and followed my intuition to learn more about Kink and BDSM. I was home. I remember thinking, wait, we are allowed to do this??
and
I can be my whole self, no more secrets?
I can share what I thought was a dark past, and not only be loved, but admired and celebrated?
I learned that my “Good Girl” and my “Bad Girl” sides were not mutually exclusive but part of my whole amazing self. Making peace with myself brought more eroticism and fun into my life plus a whole new level of confidence and self love.
And I want the same freedom from shame and sexual liberation for you.
